Is it to who or to whom?

To whom (not “to who”) is the correct choice in the formal letter greeting “To Whom It May Concern.”

“To whom” is also the correct option at the beginning of a question (e.g., “To whom shall I give it?”).

But bear in mind that “whom” has a very formal stylistic effect, which you may want to avoid. In most everyday contexts, it is better to use “who” and put the preposition “to” at the end (e.g., “Who shall I give it to?”).

“To whom” (not “to who”) is also grammatically correct at the beginning of an adjective clause (e.g., “The man, to whom she was married for ten years, did not attend”). But again, “who” is often the better option, with “to” in a later position (e.g., “The man, who she was married to for ten years, did not attend”).

Using “to whom” in a restrictive adjective clause produces sentences that can be difficult to read (e.g., “This is the man to whom she was married”). Here you can leave out “whom” altogether and move “to” to a later position (e.g., “This is the man she was married to”).

The Quillbot Grammar Checker can help ensure you’re using “who” and “whom” correctly.

Read this FAQ: Is it to who or to whom?

What does sneak up mean?

When you sneak up on someone or something, you approach without being noticed. Sneak up is always followed by the preposition “to” or “on.”

We can use sneak up literally, to describe a person or creature moving stealthily, or we can use it figuratively to describe how events sometimes seem to arrive without our noticing (e.g., “As always,  the examinations  had sneaked up on us”).

You can find synonyms for phrases like “sneak up” using the Quillbot Paraphraser.

Read this FAQ: What does sneak up mean?

Is it bare down or bear down?

“Bear and bare” are commonly confused words. The correct spelling is bear in the phrasal verb “bear down.”

For example, “She was bearing down on him fast” (i.e., she was moving closer to him), or “We need to bear down hard” (i.e., we need to make more effort).

Use Quillbot’s free Grammar Checker to help you make the correct choices between commonly confused words such as “bear and bare.”

Read this FAQ: Is it bare down or bear down?